The use of deception in doing a family intervention is truly a job for a gamesman, not someone who is vindictive or especially resentful toward the addict or alcoholic you are trying to help. I suggest consulting a professional interventionist before engaging in this particular tactic, it is so commonly and broadly misused and abused. That said, the information in this video and indeed in the chapter called Secrets and Lies in my book, the link to which is below, can illuminate this subject for you. If you are pious and refuse dishonesty of any kind, just remember there is a larger ethic at stake and factually no honor in eulogizing your loved one and saying, “Well at least I was honest.” It’s not a good look at a funeral.
PROFESSIONALS: This channel is designed as a teaching tool without the intent of usurping interventions from other professionals who wish to use it as a resource. You may refer your clients here, then notify me at Professional Intervention Services via the Contact Me Form and any consultations with the family will be referred back to you.
MISSION STATEMENT: The Intervention Channel exists because each intervention demands its own, unique solution, and because much of the information on intervention theory is either marginally effective or outright counterproductive. These videos will help anyone who is trying to help an addict who says he does not want help by not only illuminating the dark alleys and sharp corners of addiction and alcoholism, but by taking on the viewpoint of a highly experienced addict, alcoholic and professional interventionist all rolled into one.
If you have a 70 to 80% chance of getting your addicted loved one to treatment, these videos can help you reach your goal, but if you rate your chances at less than that – especially if you feel your chances are far less – please, speak to me or another professional interventionist before venturing into territory that is far better left to those who know the neighborhood! Taking risks with the life of your loved one can be vastly more costly than trying to save a few dollars.
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